Sunday, 28 December 2025

Breakfast Bags


Our Breakfast Bags were a great hit again, our 7th year of doing this. 


In early October we decide on 4x £5 categories and 4x £10 categories. 
We then each pick one out from each category, as a lucky dip. 
We buy a present for each of us (including yourself) in the category picked out, 
wrap it in identical paper and pop it in the named bags. 




When it comes to Christmas day, someone chooses a gift from their bag and we all find the gift from our bags in the corresponding paper, and unwrap it as a round.


So for example in the £5 category, I got ' a jar of', so I bought Jeff chewing gum, me a candle in a jar, Sophie a jar of coffee and Sam a jar of  Biscoff spread. I wrap those four gifts in the same design of  paper and pop each gift into each persons bag. Jeff had sweet snacks, Sophie had savoury snacks and Sam had accessories.


In the £10 round I got vessels. So I bought Jeff a diet coke glass, me a water bottle, Sophie a vase and Sam a new mug. Jeff got shower gel but it became toiletries, Sophie got hobbies and entertainment and Sam got 'a pair of'.

In total the 2 rounds equal just a £60 spend per person. (You can choose to spend more if you wish) 
It still involves a bit of thought and effort but the categories we come up with should mean we get things we will eat, need, use. 


 So from the £5 and £10 rounds this is what I received. 
Two things from Jeff - the shower gel and sweet snacks.
 Two things from Sophie - the Benson Boone CD's and the savoury snacks. 
Two things from Sam - the spoon holder/tags and the socks (apparently I'm really hard to buy for)
and I bought myself the water bottle and the candle in a jar!


The kids still get money as their main gift but get something fun to open on the day. Plus they don't have to agonise over what to buy for mum and dad or each other, and waste money in the process. 
As we neither want or need anything!!


I do a few extra rounds, nothing huge and only if I think it 
involves things people, need, want or will use!!


And Jeff does a book round, with Sophie buying a book for him. 


This year I did a Traitors round, 

a pigeon round,

Family joke, as I hate pigeons!! 
Sam got some extra Lego, and the we played the Pigeon game together.


a bag round,


holiday/travel round


Italian round


Easter egg round!!!


Forest Feast bags


And a couple of main gifts that were specifically asked for!!
Sophie, a new kettle and some new towels
Sam, some socks and Lego!!


 I bought Jeff a pair of shorts for summer (very Harry Styles!!) 
and treated myself to these ornamental figs!!


I hide everything away and then in early December lay everything out and 
decide what is missing, what is not needed, what would work as a round and then get wrapping!!


They're called Breakfast Bags because Sam was always impatient to open presents, 
so we start on the bags at breakfast!!


I received this lovely selection of gifts. 
Everything is wanted, needed or will be eaten or used. 
It hasn't cost loads of money. 
It hasn't meant someone has agonised over what to buy.

It works for us, we're already debating next years categories!! 

Christmas 2025


Merry Merry Christmas!


We started the festive week, driving down to Lifton in Devon, to meet up with my side of the family. With mum now in a wheelchair, and dad not having to drive so far, it's a good meeting point. So we enjoyed a nice lunch and did the present swap and headed home.


To then do the same thing the following day (Monday) but a little closer to home, in Wells. Again with the need for disabled access, we all met up in Spoons!! We were missing a few...Freya and Ned were still working but it was lovely to have a catch up with everyone and hear their news.


And that was the social gathering done for another year.

Just the four of us for Christmas.

I remember the first year it was just the four of us. I think Granny was poorly, which meant mum and dad stayed to look after her. I'd always hosted Christmas, living in the boarding schools, we would make use of the extra space and to me, Christmas was loads of people. Christmas wouldn't be the same with just the four of us but it was actually really lovely and so we have carried on doing it, partly through circumstances and partly through choice.


Christmas eve eve!!


The final food shop and....
(8am in Sainsbury's)


....annual fridge tetris!!


The Christmas crockery and tablecloths located....


....and the indulgent, calorific brownies made!


Always have to watch Love Actually every year!!


Enjoying the stillness x


Christmas Eve!


And a walk to blow away the cobwebs.


We've had so much rain. It's worth making use of any dry weather. 
An easterly wind has arrived. It's now dry but bitterly cold.


Back home to an afternoon of games and...


...jigsaws.


Veg prep en famille!!


And the Christmas Eve tradition of a sausage roll wreath for tea.
Stems back to the days when I had to work on Christmas Eve, quick and easy!

And now, a non negotiable 


Bridget Jones film to end the day.


Christmas Day!


Up and ready!!


Breakfast bags!


A light panettone breakfast....


and presents!!


The main event!!





and then the Kings Speech!
Followed by the evening on the sofa, opening a few more presents, watching a bit of TV and the family film choice this year.... 'The Roses' with Olivia Coleman and Benedict Cumberbatch.


Merry Christmas!


Boxing Day


We breakfasted and then squeezed into the car (Ford KA) and headed over to Ham Wall 
for a blast of cold air and a walk.


Always a friendly robin!!


It was bitterly cold but much needed.


Then it was back home for a Christmas leftovers sarnie and a few games.


And some Lego building!!


Twixmas!

The time between Christmas and New Year, where you have no idea which day it is!!
Jeff  back to running, the kids enjoying lie ins and lazy starts, and me resisting the urge to tidy!! 
I had planned to walk but the wind is baltic!! So time spent doing a few more games, jigsaws, tv, Lego building, reading, all very chilled and relaxed.


Merry Christmas x